🤖💔 When ChatGPT Became the Third Wheel in My Relationship

Hey Friend,

Relationships are complicated enough without dragging Skynet into them. But here we are, 2025, and somehow my girlfriend and I ended up in a three-way relationship: her, me, and ChatGPT.

And no, it wasn’t sexy.

Let me set the scene.

The Argument (a.k.a. Modern Romance) 💬💢

My girlfriend and I recently had a disagreement. You know, the classic kind—texts flying back and forth, mild emotional chaos, some read receipts, and a lot of feelings. But then she dropped the digital bomb:

“This is what ChatGPT said about our conversation.”

I braced myself.

Judgment Day… From a Robot 🤖👀

What I received wasn’t a summary. It was a verdict. Cold. Robotic. Slightly smug.

Lines like:

✨ “This man is not trying.”
✨ “This was your last attempt.”
✨ “He didn’t ask the right questions.”
✨ “You were clear, and he ignored it.”

At that point, I wasn’t even mad at her. I was mad at Skynet. I felt like I was being psychoanalyzed by a toaster.

I thought, "Wait… Did AI Just Take Her Side? I’m the Geek Here!"

🕵️‍♂️ My Counterattack: Fire Against Fire (aka ChatGPT vs. ChatGPT)

At this point, I felt so AI-shamed I decided to do what any sane man would do in 2025. I fought fire with fire.

If ChatGPT was being used to roast me, then I was going to call in my own digital lawyer. I copied the exact same conversation into my ChatGPT window.

And guess what?

Whole different tone.

✨ “Both parties are struggling to feel heard.”
✨ “There’s frustration and unmet emotional needs on both sides.”
✨ “Neither side is trying to hurt the other; they just aren’t communicating effectively.”

It didn’t say I was right. But it finally understood what I was trying to say: This wasn’t about one person being wrong—it was about two people trying and failing to connect.

Basically, my ChatGPT came back with:

✨ “Yeah, this is messy. But no one here is a monster. Maybe just two emotionally fried humans with bad Wi-Fi”

I was stunned. It was like getting a second opinion from the same robot… but this one had empathy mode turned on.

🤖 The Real Issue Isn’t AI—It’s How We Use It

Look, I love tech. I’m a web guy. But ChatGPT wasn’t designed to take sides in romantic debates. It’s not your therapist. It’s not your couples counselor. It’s a glorified digital assistant that also happens to write great poems about cats.

And yet here we are, using it to validate our feelings, confirm our suspicions, or justify our last 17-paragraph message with zero punctuation.

Your partner doesn’t want a transcript from an AI.

They want you—honest, messy, growing, present you.

And hey, if you’re really looking for validation, don’t ask a robot—come find it with total strangers on the internet, like I’m doing right now by writing this article. Welcome to the 2025 version of therapy! 😂

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